Curious Fox Presents: Play Party Etiquette with Effy Blue

$35 / Ticket

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Curious about sex parties?

Experience this popular workshop, featured in New York Post, NYLON, Refinery 29, Cosmo, & Thrillist. You won't find anything like it. Come see the magic!!

You're invited to our full-length Play Party Etiquette Workshop, led by sex party expert Effy Blue, a relationship coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy. We will explore a culture that celebrates sex positivity, body positivity, enthusiastic consent, and self-expression. We’ll go over all of the questions dancing in your head. How do I find a party? How do I prepare? What do I wear? What about hygiene and sexual health? What do I talk about? What do I do with my hands? Time to find out. We encourage curiosity and combine learning with hands-on exercises. Come join us as we demystify the exciting world of sex parties, and meet like-minded people!

You must fill out separate reservations for you and your guests here:

We'll discuss everything you need to know to prepare yourself for a good time, including:

1) Party Types • Learn about the different party types • How to choose the right party for you • How to find out about parties • How to get invited

2) Preparation • How to prepare for the party • What to wear • What to bring • Who to go with • How to feel comfortable before you go • How to check in with your date

3) Having Fun • How to feel confident • How to be sociable • How to find play partners • How to initiate play • How to set, communicate, negotiate, & maintain boundaries • How to keep yourself safe

4) The Community • How to keep getting invited • How to make friends in the community

5) Post-Party Check-In • How to check in with self, partner, & people you played with

When? Tuesday, February 12th, 2019

What time? Doors at 7pm, workshop 7:30-9:00pm, social 9:00-10:00pm

New Women Space, 188 Woodpoint Rd, Brooklyn, NY 11211

[The ticket price is $35 per person. ]

The limited number of seats means that we cannot offer refunds. You will receive credit for the next workshop if cancellations are made more than 24 hours in advance. If you realize you cannot come, have a friend take your spot!

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"It was a very comprehensive and informative class, loved the slide show… I felt safe there to explore this, and am grateful to learn that it is all about consent, respect & communication. It inspired me to sign up for my first play party the next day."

"Excellent information… 5/5"

"I really love the venue. Effy is a great resource."

Can't wait to see you there!


Effy Blue

Interested in building your relationship? Meet your architect.

Relationship expert Effy Blue specializes in non-monogamy and other alternative structures, expanding her domain from the world of corporate advertising to coaching. Using the skills she cultivated in the business world, Effy solves problems by fearlessly asking the tough questions while constructively offering thoughtful insights. She offers private coaching, leads public workshops, writes an advice column, and founded the relationship guidance community, Curious Fox.

Effy is committed to honoring individual preferences through her model Relationship by Design. Without the pre-packaged constructs that help us navigate monogamy, open relationships lend themselves to flexibility so that we can custom craft them from the bottom up. Through the building process, Effy offers techniques that help her clients treat their partners and themselves with humility, kindness, and grace.

tags: play, community, relationships, learn, selfimprovement